Posted by Broken Hearted on November 02, 1998 at 01:06:32:
I know I have posted quite a few posts, but I need some input. Everyone
that I have talked to here (my friends and family) about my husband and the affair
that he has had.......I posted the whole story entitled
I Can't Forgive****HELP****. There is one thing to add to that
story though. I found out after I found out I had an STD
from his affair, that after we had been separated this
summer for awhile, I came home after he made all these
promises to me about how sorry he was and how it was
over with this woman and how he desparetly wanted this
marriage back. 2 Weeks after I came home, he took her on
a business trip with him. He only told me about it a few
weeks ago after living this lie for over 2 months. I
trusted him and believed he was serious about wanting this
marriage and now I find out it was nothing but a lie. My
question is, I have talked to a lot of people and friends
about this, and the majority of them are telling me that
it is more than likely that my husband will do this again.
If not with her, with someone else. They are telling me
that since he has had this affair, that he will probably do
it again and again. Is this true? I'm just sick about this.
I can never begin to forgive him and trust him if I think
that he will be a repeat offender. My husband swears that
he loves me and wants to make this right, but now I can't
believe him. I have died inside and feel like life is not
worth much right now. I feel like I'm not worth much right
now. PLEASE, SOMEONE HELP ME MAKE SENSE OF ALL THIS!!!