Posted by B on October 06, 1998 at 07:23:23:
Dr. Showalter,
I have this prpblem with forgiving my uncle. HE raped and molested me from the age of 11 to 13. I went to therapy and stuff he is in jail now, but there is still this thing there that i have to forgive him, and i cant. I dotn knwo what to think about it anymore I go to church and i hear all about forgiveness and stuff but in ym heart i will enver be able to forgive him and i dont know what to do about it cause the pain hurts and it wont go away. So if you can pelase offer soem advice i would appreciate it.
Thanks