Posted by Jason Blaser on November 27, 1998 at 09:39:11:
In Reply to: Re: Adultry, how can I forgive when I cant forget? posted by Doug Showalter on January 13, 1998 at 19:22:49:
Doug,
I to have had my wife leave me for another even though she says it wasn't for him, but I still have that picture in my mind when she said "I need to call him!". I am recently a firm believer in marriage and I can honestly say since I said "I do" I have never been with anyone else, sure I have had thoughts but never acted on them knowing I wouldn't want my wife to do it to me and becuse I LOVE MY WIFE very much. To make a long story short I am in the Military and now I am deployed to Bosnia. My problem is this 4hrs before I boarded the plane she came back and said that she wanted to remain married and work things out, that was the happiest day of my life. I thought could deal with this but its hard thinking what is she doing right now or where she at. So I think the problem is not only forgetting but how do you trust again when the person that was your whole world once betrayed you? If it was a perfect world I would tell her to stay at home until I get back, but I kow it would not happen. So what do you do?