Posted by agm on August 28, 1998 at 17:18:28:
In Reply to: Adultery after 4 months of marriage posted by Mike on August 27, 1998 at 19:25:49:
Mike,
my hope is that these feelings come from your heart and not to make all of us (those, like your wife, Christi, who have been hurt by betrayal) feel bad for you. Christi has a right to feel the way she does right now. There is a healing process, which also includes you.
Please don't give up. When Christi is in a bad mood or feels like she can't go on feeling like this anymore, offer your love and companionship, support and respect. Let her know that you love her. Tell her how you feel as well; it helps us,women, know our mates better if they share with us their feelings--no matter how stupid you may think they are.
I'm praying that you two have a second chance to begin your marriage how you thought you would. Also remember, this is probably not the last time in your life that you go through a tough situation, as a couple as well as an individual. Be strong. God is with you. Let him show you how to love Christi, now and for the rest of your life....
you're in my prayers,
agm