Posted by Terry Conner on August 03, 1998 at 11:00:38:
In Reply to: Re: Adultry, how can I forgive when I cant forget? posted by Rev. SL Teel on December 23, 1997 at 16:19:46:
I to am trying to deal with the pain of an affair
my wife had. It was two years ago that I found out.
We did go to counseling with a good Christian marriage
counseler. He helped, but now that the counseling
has stopped, I am still struggling. I love my wife
very much. We have been married 25 years.
I have not been able to forgive the other person.
I have taught Sunday School for around twenty years.
So I do know what scripture says about forgiveness.
That does not make it any easier. I knwo what I
should do but can not. I know that this will only
be done by God through me.
Because I have taught Sunday school for so long,
and because I have tried to be a good husband and
father, I have also been angry with God. So this
had made things still more difficult. I am so very
tired of the pain. I would ask for those of you
willing, to please pray for me.
My wife is trying very hard to rebuild our relationship.
Thank you.