Posted by beth on April 17, 1998 at 11:40:32:
In Reply to: Re: the other woman posted by Terri on April 14, 1998 at 15:36:18:
We are still together. I had to take a hard look at myself,
The other woman was married, He wanted to divorce & she said he was the one for her.
Because he spent money & they had fun. She was beautiful, younger & very trim. She came on to him to escape a boring life.
I guess his ego got the best of him. She was like every mans dream. He couldn't see through her that she was a user & manipulator.
He is a very kind person & felt sorry for her.
When it came down to it & he told her truthfully that he is less than perfect, & why!
She dumped him big time.
He has been bending over backwards to me. I fell in love with him because of his kind nature. He reminds me of the good samaritan.
If he had no remorse it would be very difficult to stay together. We both work at our marriage 100%
My difficulty is getting my feelings towards her out of my head. I just wish she'd leave the state. I woulkd like her to feel the pain both my husband & I have gone through.
And I know that one day I will probably see her again. I need a plan in my head how I'll handle that.