Posted by christine on October 28, 1998 at 16:51:55:
For many months, I have gone to my computer several times a day to check this forgiveness page. I have learned much from the people who have written during that time. I have come to a place, however, where I no longer want to immerse myself in the subject of adultery and it's time to leave it behind and move toward a more joyous life. I believe that I have truly forgiven my husband but surprisingly, it came after I could look honestly at my own faults (that were truly a contributing factor that got us here) and forgive myself also. I am no longer a victim and I feel like I have come full circle. I pray that my husband and I have learned how precious our love is and will be smarter in the future. So now it's on to positive thoughts and hopefully, a growing relationship. Thank you all.