Posted by Julie on January 07, 1998 at 07:12:22:
In Reply to: Adultry, how can I forgive when I cant forget? posted by Chuck on December 23, 1997 at 06:53:52:
Dear Chuck,
A year ago my husband told me he'd had an affair wiht a woman in his office. The pain, as you described, was "real bad". At times it seemed unbearable. I can tell you that today it hurts less than it did yesterday and that it hurts a whole lot less than it did last year. Doug's suggestions were great. Especially that you do something positive to nurture your self-esteem. You are in my prayers. -Julie