Posted by beth on May 01, 1998 at 19:42:53:
In Reply to: Re: the other woman posted by Agm on May 01, 1998 at 18:04:54:
Marriage cannot work unless you can have honesty, trust & respect for each other , and for yourself.
I doubt if I'll ever forget what happened, neither will my husband. He is remorseful, and he continues to show me
that, and that he loves me. Yes, the betrayal is very difficult to get over. He was a jerk, and he was fooled by this other woman. If he was nonchalant, and not honest with me we would not be married. The
lady dangled herself in front of him, and our marriage was not great at the time. We have had to look at both ourselves. Neither of us our perfect,
and at that time I was pushing him away, with reason. I was dealing with our difficulties in the wrong way, so he escaped. Not right, he should have left before involving himself
Today in order to survive, I have to think of what is happening now, and not throw the past in his face. Re your boyfriend can you do this? Can you respect him
Can you trust him? Marriages have their ups & downs,and times when you feel like its just the same thing day after day. do you know that he will be able to stick it out?Almost
Two years have gone by now, we are still married.