Posted by scv on March 31, 1998 at 18:24:29:
In Reply to: Re: Adultry, how can I forgive when I cant forget? posted by Doug Showalter on March 12, 1998 at 12:11:07:
thank you doug for your comments but after only one month of working it out together he and his girlfriend have been apart and we now found out she is pregnate
2 months i nor she belive in abortion and its not like were young kids here im 27 now my husband soon 31 and she in her early 20s he does not want this child but i feel there is nothing i can do in this matter its between them it is her life and body and who am i to tell her what to do for my own happiness . its not just us any more there is a very precious innocent person in the ressult of this affair. she howevere might be going away from her religious belifes and going through with it. she knows its over between them but still will try to hold on however she can. the question is can i get through this is the marrige still worth saving? she will now be forever in our lives i dont know if this will be fair to the marrige weve, especially me have been through so much i dont want to go through that again know that he might have this tie with her. any advice ?